Chapter 1
What Is Supplication?
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Du‘a is the servant asking his Lord for what his own means cannot reach. The chapter asks what we really gain from it.
Key points
- Du‘a is a call upward, to the One no cause can stop. We turn to Him for exactly the things our own means cannot deliver.
- Asking is an admission of need, which is why people who feel self-sufficient stop asking (96:6-7). Comfort can hide the Giver: we thank the water company and forget who sent the rain.
- We ask for what looks good to us, but our view is short. Like a father who refuses his son a gun, Allah may hold back what would harm us, and the holding back is the answer.
- People pray for harm in anger as readily as for good (17:11). If every angry prayer of a parent against a child were answered, families would be ruined (10:11).
- In 2:186 the answer to “ask you about Me” comes without “Say”: Allah replies to His servants directly, and du‘a needs no go-between.
- In the hadith qudsi of Abu Dharr (Muslim 2577), if everyone who ever lived asked at once and each were given, it would take from Allah’s dominion no more than a needle dipped in the sea.
- The real gain is the humility of asking, which is worship in itself, whether or not the request is granted.
Read with care
- “Du‘a is the heart of worship”. The book builds on the wording “du‘a is the essence of worship”, which at-Tirmidhi (3371) narrates with a weak chain (graded da‘if by Darussalam; at-Tirmidhi called it gharib). The sound wording is “Du‘a is worship”, after which the Prophet ﷺ recited 40:60 (at-Tirmidhi 3372 and Abu Dawud 1479, graded sahih by Darussalam and by al-Albani).
- “Busy remembering Me”. The book twice quotes a hadith qudsi about the one too busy remembering Allah to ask Him. In at-Tirmidhi (2926) the report is about someone too busy with the Qur’an, and it is graded da‘if by Darussalam.
- Delayed because He loves your voice. The idea that Allah delays a believer’s answer because He loves to hear him, and answers disbelievers quickly to be rid of theirs, comes from narrations graded very weak (al-Tabarani; one narrator was abandoned). The sound teaching is that every du‘a gets one of three: answered soon, saved for the Hereafter, or a harm of its size turned away (al-Adab al-Mufrad 710 and Ahmad; al-Mundhiri called its chains good, al-Haythami said its narrators are those of the Sahih, and al-Albani and Ibn Baz graded it sahih).
Go deeper across How to Muslim
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